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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 02:24

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

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Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

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But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

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Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I was scared of men, in general

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He resisted the act ,that day.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

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I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

She wouldn,t have been !

He knew the spot.

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But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

We were not on the streets..

All the time i was locked up.

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As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

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I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

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And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

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And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

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Do you have any problem dating a younger man?

I was seconnd youngest,

And i lived it daily.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

So, i spoilt her more .

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Ive learnt so much.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

I will be 64.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I have no regrets .

But it wasn’t much.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I could never make a relationship work though!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I don,t even have a pension.

She found it foreign!.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Would this be the day?

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Especially a lifetime of it.

As i do to all so called friends.?

I said to her

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I was 9 years of age.

But ive been too sick for many years..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

The only rule us 5 kids had .

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Put me off passion for life!!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I couldn’t, believe it.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I think the readers, may guess!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

She loved him until the end.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Im still living with it.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I never cut or harmed myself..

My life is so biszare .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

This is soul school!.

She married twice! .

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

We all went to grammer schools

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

(And it was in our own minds.)

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

I waited trembling.

She was in good health!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

So whats the point in blame.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

One cannot live in the past .

Comes on , in middle age.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Why did i forgive my father ?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I write beautiful poetry .

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

It was going to be , some day.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

When she asked me how she looked .

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I did it because my mum asked me too!

What did i know ?

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

I was very sick at this time too.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Who then, do I blame.?

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But, we were locked up after school.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

My family never makes their pension either.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

And who doesn’t know suffering?